Still fighting the flu...

How did the week go by so fast?

Shortly after I posted last week, Kathy got sick again (same version of cold/flu again? new bug? who knows, but it really sucks!). She lost her voice, felt weak, tired and generally terrible and is on another round of antibiotics. She stayed home from work all this week to rest and recuperate. Good plan. I know it is really hard for her to stay home. I don't think she has ever missed more than a day or two (if that) during a year, so the decision to stay home and rest has been hard for her. I think in some ways it feels like losing or giving in. But it is a tactical loss (if it is a loss at all). Give this up in order to save strength for the real battle. (On the positive side, only three more kemo's to go!)

So keep sending Kathy your "get well" thoughts, either privately or through the comments here. You may not get a response from her since she is concentrating on getting well, rather than answering emails. But just know that she and her family really appreciate all the support she is getting from everyone. Thanks, all of you!

The Second Half....

...of the Kemo started off without a hitch!

Thursday was the first kemo of the round of four Taxol infusions. This phase of kemo requires some measures to prevent reaction to the drugs. The time at the center is longer because there first has to be a Benedryl infusion to prevent potential allergic reaction. Also there are some drugs Kathy is required to take the night before.

Some of us were worried that she might not get to have it (it was a week late already since she had that bad cold/flu). Others of us were worried that she might be one of those few who have a reaction. Good news! The worries were unfounded! Kathy did fine and she was feeling ok as of her last text. I'm guessing the cold/flu bug must be on the run, too, or they wouldn't have let her have the kemo.

No one said kicking the !@#$%&* cancer was going to be easy. Weeks like the last two test Kathy's strength and make her doubt her resilience. But true strength and resilience doesn't mean never going down. It means eventually popping back up after something's got you down. Remember these?

Hoping for a Better Week!

So what happened to our Blogstar? As you know, she was sick with the cold/flu that's been going around. Last weekend, she felt so bad that she went to the emergency room and ended up with HEAVY DUTY antibiotics. By Wednesday she still wasn't feeling better and had a Dr. appointment. On Thursday I met with her son for some math help and he sounded terrible! Between his coughing and mine we turned the hallway into a germ zone!

Today she's back at school, but definitely not back to 100%. If you've had this flu/cold thing you can definitely empathize. Cheryl and I have both tried to convince her to stay home longer. Stay home and kick this flu/cold in the ass so she can go back to kicking cancer. But I understand the drive to be at work. Besides the getting behind that happens if you are home sick, sometimes feeling crappy with some distraction is better than just being home feeling crappy. Sometimes it feels better to pretend to be o.k. when you feel terrible. Even if it's only just infinitesimally better...

Whatever wellness vibes you've got, send 'em this way! Kathy could really use them!

We Interrupt Your Blog Reading....

...with another link. Both the Blogstar and the blog auth0r are down with a bad cold (I swear I didn't give it to her... I didn't see her at all last week!!!!) Meanwhile here is one of my favorite sites when I need a good laugh. Passive Aggressive Notes dot com. Nothing to do with cancer. Wickedly funny and sarcastic, just like our favorite Blogstar!

More Health Humor

I haven't seen Kathy all week. It doesn't have anything to do with how she's feeling. Just that our schedules never meshed. So, can't give you an update. But I do have more funnies for your weekend. Click here to see Dan Reynold's Healthcare Cartoons. These cartoons cover all aspects of healthcare. Even pet healthcare.

Laugh More, Live Better!

Just About Now...

...I'm sure Kathy and her family could use some humor!

Here's a tip for when you are cranky, feeling like crap, bored of feeling like crap, tired, grouchy from being tired, nauseated, f-ing tired of being nauseated etc. Google! It is amazing what you can find when you put "!@#$%& cancer" into Google images! (P.S. This is for old people only. Kids should not do this. Teenagers should not do this, but probably have done it already without me telling them!)






This poster, entitled "Love Boobs, Hate Cancer," was done as a fundraiser at another blog. What do you say blog readers? Should we make one of these???? They raised over $4000. Ha ha ha!!

I am borrowing it here since their fundraiser is over. In the spirit of the poster, though...

Do you love boobs and HATE cancer? Then make a donation to the American Cancer Society or start saving for our Relay for Life fundraisers. Got pennies????

Is it the Kemo...

...or is it Us?
I got an update from Kathy just before the weekend and I thought I would share some of what was in the email.
The doctor told me yesterday that she could hardly feel the tumor, to which I replied, "So, we're done here?" To which she replied, "Uh, no!"

Thursday was my last "poison" treatment," and I'm not looking forward to the next couple of weeks of being sick, but I am encouraged by the reports of how much easier the next drug regimen is. And, I'm half-way done with my kemo!

It still seems as if I have such a long way to go, and I tried to give myself the same advice I give to students when they talk about how long it'll take to get a certificate or degree: "It's OK, you'll get there--break it into chunks (baby steps)--you'll be surprised at how quickly the time goes."

What a load of crap! Well, not really, but it's hard to take your own advice!

Anyway, thanks to everyone for helping me shrink those little !@#$%&ers with your positive thoughts and actions.

So is it the Kemo, or is it Us? I vote that we call it the combination of the treatment, Kathy's personal and family strength, and the energy we are all creating! Whatever it is, let's keep it working!!!!! When the strength of one of those things starts to flag, the others are there to take over the heavy lifting. Keep the comments coming, too. Kathy and her family really appreciate hearing from all of you out there. (255 visits to the blog as of this morning!)